Secret 12 · Values / Needs · Life Areas

Relationships, footprints and network

Life, job and leadership areas — and SGL mentoring. Three secrets on where a leader's energy actually comes from: the four life areas of work, family, friends and leisure; the job phases from junior through senior and mentor to sponsor; and Situation Leadership, with the team zone and the one-to-one dialogues that fill it in.

Start with 12,1 → Private · Gut + Body · Archetypal

Job phases from junior to sponsor

Job development across the life career, from junior through senior and mentor to sponsor.

The case

Footprints

Be aware of how your life touches others, leaving marks of joy, memories, and wounds that time cannot erase. Every interaction, every choice, and every moment of connection matters deeply.

Be aware of why your “footprints” endure in the lives of others. They are reminders of your presence, your care, and your impact — intentional or not. Your life is intertwined with theirs, and your actions hold the power to shape their paths.

Footprints in the sand

You are stronger than you believe!

Because your life depends on the care of others. Become aware of the value of others’ commitment, love and sponsorship for your life and your needs. Become an attentive networker who creates “footprints” of light in your network. Your footprints are your legacy in the hearts of others.

Secret 12 · PPP

Where the energy comes from

Private · Gut language

The “Why”

Secret 12 sits in the private code. It asks what a leader draws energy from, before it asks what the leader does.

Four life areas

Work, family, friends, leisure

Motivation grows from several sources at once. The balance between the four areas decides how much a leader has to give.

Outward and inward journey

Job phases and mentoring

Junior to sponsor is the outward journey. The pressures that follow ask for a new kind of self-awareness.

In this Secret

Three lessons in Secret 12

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Bilde til leksjon 12,1

Lesson 12,1 Life Areas Motivation grows from multiple sources. How Life Areas are important and affect your leadership, within: Work and Family and Friends and Leisure. Read lesson 12,1 → Not started

Bilde til leksjon 12,2

Lesson 12,2 Job Phases Your first job can define your direction. Why Job Phases from junior to sponsor favour the outward journey, while the pressures of the future will require new self-awareness for the inward journey. Read lesson 12,2 → Not started

Bilde til leksjon 12,3

Lesson 12,3 Situation Leadership Practice Total Situation Leadership / TSL. Situation Leadership will help us to illuminate the job areas as an invitation to personal growth — and some group tools that help us to wisdom. Read lesson 12,3 → Not started

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The TSL model

L.I.F.E. and the four areas

L.I.F.E. and the four areas

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